expectations

expectations









We can't get away from our expectations. They whisper and shout at us.
They sneak in and surprise us. Somewhere inside our head and heart, we
expect every Christmas to be like a wonderful Christmas from the past.
The one when our house was full of people and laughter...when a loved
one was alive...when your first child was born...when your family was in
one piece.



And
maybe this Christmas is different for you. You may not be with all the
people you love. It may be the first without a loved one. You may be
stationed at a military base far from home. Could be the first after a
painful divorce.



Or maybe this Christmas is shaping up to be exactly like you hoped.
Everything and everyone is in place and you envision magical moments of
family togetherness.



I encourage you to let go of your expectations.



I wonder if some of the pain we feel at Christmas is because we compare
each one to a memory. As long as we do that, it will never stand up to
that powerful memory. And we'll miss the beauty of a new Christmas moment right in front of us.



God wants to speak to you this Christmas. To show you that your
loved beyond what you can imagine. That new life and a fresh start is
available every single day. That God walks with you through every life
situation. And that God has some incredible dreams for how you might
change your corner of the world.



Let go of past Christmas celebrations. Good and bad ones. Be present
with the people you're able to this Christmas. Create new traditions.
Change can be good. Remember the past fondly but don't stay there.



Clear away the clutter of past Christmas memories. Look up. God is giving you a brand new Christmas.