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PostSubject: Complicated grief   Complicated grief EmptySun Jan 23, 2011 5:51 pm

Complicated grief
Filed under: Boomer's Health
Losing a loved one is one of the most distressing and, unfortunately, common experiences people face. Most people experiencing normal grief and bereavement endure a period of sorrow, numbness, and even guilt and anger, followed by a gradual fading of these feelings as they accept their loss and move forward.

For some people, though, this normal grief reaction becomes much more complicated, painful and debilitating, or what's called complicated grief. In complicated grief, painful emotions are so long lasting and severe that you have trouble accepting the death and resuming your own life.

Treatment is available to help people with complicated grief come to terms with their loss and reclaim a sense of joy and peace.


Mental health experts are still analyzing how complicated grief symptoms differ from those of normal grief or other bereavement reactions. During the first few months after a loss, many signs and symptoms of normal grief are the same as those of complicated grief. However, while normal grief symptoms gradually start to fade, those of complicated grief get worse or linger. Complicated grief is like being in a chronic, heightened state of mourning.

Signs and symptoms of complicated grief can include:

* Extreme focus on the loss and reminders of the loved one
* Intense longing or pining for the deceased
* Problems accepting the death
* Numbness or detachment
* Preoccupation with your sorrow
* Bitterness about your loss
* Inability to enjoy life
* Depression or deep sadness
* Difficulty moving on with life
* Trouble carrying out normal routines
* Withdrawing from social activities
* Feeling that life holds no meaning or purpose
* Irritability or agitation
* Lack of trust in others

When to see a doctor
It's normal to experience grief after a significant loss. Most people who experience normal or uncomplicated grief can move forward eventually with support from family and friends. But if it's been several months or more since your loss and your emotions remain so intense or debilitating that you have trouble going about your normal routine, talk to your health care provider.

Specifically, you may benefit from professional help if you:

* Can focus on little else but your loved one's death
* Have persistent pining or longing for the deceased person
* Have thoughts of guilt or self-blame
* Believe that you did something wrong or could have prevented the death
* Feel as if life isn't worth living
* Have lost your sense of purpose in life
* Wish you had died along with your loved one

At times, people with complicated grief may consider suicide. If you're considering suicide, reach out to someone as soon as possible. The best choice is to call 911 or your local emergency services number.


It's not known what causes complicated grief. As with many mental health disorders, it may involve a complex interaction between your genes, your environment, your body's natural chemical makeup and your personality.

Researchers used to believe that all people moved through five specific stages of grief, in order. Today it's accepted that different people follow different paths through the following tasks of grieving:

* Accepting the reality of your loss
* Allowing yourself to experience the pain of your loss
* Adjusting to a new reality in which the deceased is no longer present
* Engaging in other relationships

You may accomplish these tasks in a different order or on a different timeline than another person grieving a similar loss. These differences are normal. But if you're unable to accomplish one or more of these tasks after a considerable amount of time, you may have complicated grief.

Risk factors

While it's not known specifically what causes complicated grief, researchers continue to learn more about the factors that may increase the risk of developing it. These risk factors may include:

* An unexpected or violent death
* Suicide of a loved one
* Lack of a support system or friendships
* Traumatic childhood experiences, such as abuse or neglect
* Childhood separation anxiety
* Close or dependent relationship to the deceased person
* Being unprepared for the death
* In the case of a child's death, the number of remaining children
* Lack of resilience or adaptability to life changes


Complicated grief can affect you physically, mentally and socially. Without appropriate treatment, these complications can include:

* Depression
* Suicidal thoughts or behaviors
* Increased risk of heart disease, cancer and high blood pressure
* Anxiety
* Long-term impairment in daily living
* Post-traumatic stress disorder
* Substance abuse
* Smoking or nicotine use

Preparing for your appointment

Call your doctor if you've recently lost a loved one and are feeling such profound disbelief, hopelessness or intense yearning for your loved one that you can't function in daily life. If you had a warm relationship with the doctor who cared for your loved one before his or her death, you may also wish to call that doctor to talk about your loss. Someone who knew your loved one well and experienced the loss alongside you may be able to provide unique comfort.

After your initial appointment, your doctor may refer you to a mental health provider who can help diagnose your symptoms and provide a treatment plan.

Here's some information to help you prepare for your appointment, and what to expect from your doctor.

What you can do

* Write down any symptoms you've been experiencing, and for how long. Your doctor will want to know the extent to which these symptoms are affecting your daily life, including work and personal relationships.
* Write down your key personal information, especially any additional, major stress or change you've experienced since your loved one died. For example, tell your doctor if you or someone close to you has had a serious illness since your loved one's death, or if you've had significant family disruptions or financial problems.
* Write down all of your medical information, including other physical or mental health conditions with which you've been diagnosed. Also write down the names of any medications you're taking.
* Ask a trusted family member or friend to be present for your appointment, if possible. Sometimes it can be difficult to soak up all the information provided to you during an appointment. Someone who accompanies you may remember something that you missed or forgot.
* Write down questions to ask your doctor.

Questions to ask your doctor or mental health provider include:

* Do you think my symptoms are more severe than what's typical after a loved one's death? Why?
* Do you think talk therapy would help me?
* Are there local support groups that might be a fit for me?
* Are medications available that could improve my symptoms?
* What are the possible side effects of those medications?
* What self-care steps are most likely to help me?
* How long do you expect it will take me to feel better with treatment?
* Will I eventually feel like myself again?

In addition to the questions that you've prepared in advance, don't hesitate to ask for more information at any time that you don't understand.

What to expect from your doctor
A doctor or mental health provider who sees you for possible complicated grief may ask:

* How often do you think about your deceased love one?
* When you think about your loved one, what do you feel?
* Do you believe you could have prevented your loved one's death?
* Do you ever wish that you had died along with your loved one?
* Would you say you've accepted that your loved one is gone?
* Have you had difficulty trusting people since your loved one died?
* How well would you say are you functioning in your daily life, including work, household maintenance and other relationships?
* Have you experienced any other major stresses, changes or loss since your loved one died?
* Have you had trouble eating or sleeping since your loved one died?
* How much social support would you say you have, such as from relatives, friends or a church community?
* Have you been diagnosed with any medical conditions?
* Have you been treated for other psychiatric symptoms or mental illness in the past? If yes, what type of therapy was most beneficial?
* Have you ever thought about harming yourself or others?
* Do you drink alcohol or use illicit drugs? If so, how often?

What you can do in the meantime
While you're waiting for your doctor appointment, try reaching out to your friends or family. Talking about your feelings and asking for help is essential to healthy grieving.

If you have fantasies about hurting yourself, go to an emergency room or call 911 or your local emergency number immediately.

Tests and diagnosis

Complicated grief isn't yet recognized by mental health providers as an actual disorder. Because there are many similarities between complicated grief and major depression, researchers are working to clarify the key differences between these conditions so that firm diagnostic criteria can be established.

Studies of people grieving the death of a loved one suggest that two primary symptoms make complicated grief unique:

* Continued disbelief that the death has occurred
* Intense yearning for the deceased that disrupts your ability to function in daily life, such as at work or in social engagements

Other factors that suggest a diagnosis of complicated grief include:

* Inability to trust others
* Difficulty moving forward with life
* Excessive bitterness or anger related to the death
* Feeling emotionally numb or detached from others
* A feeling that life is now meaningless
* A belief that the future won't be fulfilling
* Increased agitation or jumpiness
* Social withdrawal

Many of these symptoms are common during the normal process of grieving. In complicated grief, however, they show no signs of improvement over time.

There's currently no consensus among mental health experts about how much time must pass, exactly, before complicated grief can be diagnosed. Some experts recommend diagnosing complicated grief when two or more months have passed without any improvement in symptoms, while others recommend waiting six or more months. While researchers continue to try to pin down a time frame for this diagnosis, their work is made challenging by the knowledge that grieving is a highly individual process.

Rather than looking at the exact time period, a mental health provider is more likely to diagnose complicated grief based on:

* A lack of any improvement in your symptoms over time
* A significant impact on your ability to function in daily life

Treatments and drugs

Complicated grief treatment hasn't been standardized because mental health providers are still learning about the condition. Research studies testing various types of treatment have had mixed results. That isn't to say that treatment isn't helpful, though. More study is needed to help determine which treatment options may be best for complicated grief.

Some studies have shown significant benefits from treating complicated grief with a type of psychotherapy called complicated grief therapy, which borrows from cognitive behavioral therapy and trauma therapy. You may learn about such topics as grief reactions, complicated grief symptoms, adjusting to your loss and redefining your life's goals. You may also hold imagined conversations with your loved one and retell the circumstances of the death to help you become less distressed by images and thoughts of your loved one.

Other forms of therapy, such as interpersonal therapy or psychodynamic psychotherapy, also may be effective. Therapy can help you explore and process emotions, improve coping skills and reduce feelings of blame and guilt.

There's little solid research on the use of psychiatric medications to treat complicated grief. However, some research has shown benefits from using antidepressants in the class of selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) to reduce complicated grief symptoms.

Coping and support

Although it's important to get professional treatment for complicated grief, you can take steps on your own to cope, including:

* Stick to your treatment plan. Take medications as directed and attend therapy appointments as scheduled.
* Exercise regularly. Physical exercise helps relieve depression, stress and anxiety and can redirect your mind to the activity at hand.
* Take care of yourself. Get enough rest, eat a balanced diet and take time to relax. Don't turn to alcohol or illicit drugs for relief.
* Reach out to your faith community. If you follow religious practices or traditions, you may gain comfort from rituals or guidance from a spiritual leader.
* Practice stress management. Learn how to better manage stress. Unmanaged stress can lead to depression, overeating, or other unhealthy thoughts and behaviors.
* Socialize. Stay connected with people you enjoy being around. They can offer support, a shoulder to cry on or a joke to give you a little boost.
* Plan ahead for special dates or anniversaries. Holidays, anniversaries and special occasions can trigger painful reminders of your loved one. Find new ways to celebrate or acknowledge your loved one that provide you comfort and hope.
* Learn new skills. If you were highly dependent on your loved one, perhaps to handle the cooking or finances, for example, try to master these tasks yourself. Ask family, friends or professionals for guidance, if necessary. Seek out community classes and resources, too.
* Join a support group. You may not be ready to join a support group immediately after your loss, but over time you may find shared experiences comforting and you may form meaningful new relationships.


It's not clear how to prevent complicated grief. Participating in a brief course of counseling or psychotherapy soon after a loss may help, especially for people at increased risk of developing complicated grief. In addition, caregivers providing end-of-life care for a loved one may benefit from counseling and support to help prepare for death and its emotional aftermath.

Through early counseling, you can explore emotions surrounding your loss and learn healthy coping skills. This may help prevent negative beliefs about your loss from gaining such a strong hold that they're difficult to overcome. Talking about your grief and allowing yourself to cry also will help prevent you from getting stuck in your sadness. As painful as it is, trust that in most cases, your pain will start to lift if you allow yourself to feel it.

Family members, friends, group therapy and social support groups are all good options to help you work through your grief. You may be able to find a support group focused on a particular type of loss, such as death of a spouse or a child. Ask your doctor to recommend local resources.
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